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This is a good clue as to why they’re important to orgasm—but more on that in the next section. Underneath the ischiocavernosus and transverse perineal muscles lies the urogenital diaphragm, which is the middle layer of pelvic muscle. The vagina and the urethra both pass through this flat muscle, which is shaped like a triangle. The bulbs, legs, and perineal sponge of the clitoris lie between the outer and middle layers of muscle. The inner layer of pelvic muscle lies deeper in the pelvis, underneath all the muscles just described.

So, I can understand if you’re feeling a bit impatient or half-hearted. Well, yes I am. But I’ve had my problem for quite a while now, so I just want to get straight to the point: how do I fix it? Good question! We’ll get to that soon enough. But first, you need to identify what kind of orgasm difficulty you have and why. This is important if you’re going to choose the right program to overcome it. You need to first understand your orgasm difficulty before any “fixing” can start to happen. It’s surprising how many areas of information need to be covered to help you develop this understanding of yourself.

The emphasis on sensuality, cuddling and kissing (common to most women, whoever their partner is) can override the desire for sex or for sexual arousal. Although this situation may take the pressure off you to orgasm, it can also change the relationship to the extent that you feel like companions rather than lovers. how to use this book I WANT TO be blunt here and say that not all readers will be able to benefit from The Elusive Orgasm. The question of who will and who won’t benefit is tackled in chapter 2.